Becoming a Good Relative

A transformative journey for white settlers seeking truth, healing, and repair.

Becoming a Good Relative weaves Hilary Giovale's personal story of transformation with historical research, spiritual teachings, and practical tools. Giovale offers warm, compassionate, and vulnerable personal stories to reveal how unlearning fragility, becoming antiracist, and repairing ancestral harm can feel. She invites readers beyond intellectual analysis into intuition, dreams, and practical rituals.

This memoir is for white people curious about moving beyond white fragility and into robust healing. Discover inspiration to direct more funding to communities of Color. Learn how to build resilience and commit to reparations for the long term. Explore how to:

• Heal from the wounds of colonialism
• Embrace Indigenous wisdom
• Practice interpersonal philanthropy